Hailee Karam, LMSW, CCTP
Trauma Psychotherapist
You’ve been living by everyone else’s needs instead of your own. You want to stop abandoning yourself, but everyone else is relying on you, and you can’t let them down. You attempt to prioritize your wellbeing, but every time you plan to do something for yourself, you feel a pervasive sense of guilt. Knowing you’re everyone’s go-to counselor and cheerleader provides temporary relief from the profound feelings of worthlessness that plague you. While you’re dedicated to the happiness of others, the true reason for your incredible care is that you’re terrified of being alone and disappointing others. The cycle of overgiving and self-neglect has left you with feelings of resentment, frustration, and the loss of your true self.
I understand that the idea of change can cause so much fear. If I prioritize myself, will my friends and family reject me? If I say no at work, will my team think I’m being selfish? If I start to prioritize myself, will I even feel better?
The truth is, your experience and needs matter. Like those you care for so well, you also need care, validation, and connection to thrive. When you solely focus on the needs of others, you disconnect from your authentic self. While it can feel impossible to break free of the pattern of seeking validation and approval from others, doing so will give you the sense of peace, belonging, and vitality you crave.
Together, we can redirect some of that gentleness and care back toward yourself. Through radical self-acceptance, I am here to help you discover your inner healer so we can courageously face the shadow of your struggles. Through exploration, curiosity, and creativity, we will heal the traumas that brought you here. I am here to act as an educator, mentor, and ally as we develop your path home to yourself.
You are the most integral member of this team, and we will use therapeutic approaches that best meet your unique needs. Strategies I draw from in my practice include Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Trauma-Informed Practice, and Mindfulness strategies.
I believe that we can build communities of compassion and care through compassion and acceptance of ourselves. In my practice, there is space and celebration for all identities and intersections of identity that you carry. I am committed to respecting your needs, honoring your autonomy, and empowering you to reach your goals.
Hailee (she/her/hers) graduated from Wayne State University with a Master’s Degree in Clinical Social Work and is a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional. Hailee has a clinical background in working with adults of all ages impacted by childhood trauma, PTSD & Complex PTSD, relationship issues, depression, anxiety, and those of LGBTQIA+ identity. Her therapeutic approach is humanistic and strength-based to empower individuals to connect with and celebrate their authenticity. Hailee’s first career was in the arts and she enjoys helping others connect to their creativity while releasing perfectionism, judgement, and shame.
Populations Served: Adults of all ages
Areas of Interest and Expertise:
· Anxiety & Depression
· Trauma, PTSD, and Complex PTSD
· Childhood Trauma, Abuse, and Neglect
· Life transitions and adjustments
· Stress management
· Relationship challenges
· Attachment
· Self-esteem & Self-worth
· Body Image & Acceptance
· Perfectionism
· Mindfulness
· Teletherapy
Insurances Accepted
Blue Cross Blue Shield
Blue Care Network
Aetna